I took a little extra time off to be of assistance to a dear friend
who has been having an astonishingly rough time of late.
This friend, who happens to also be a faithful reader of this blog,
has had a handful of catastrophes beset him; he's so overwhelmed
that he even tried several times to end his life! He telephoned me
and told me of his plight, and asked if he could come over from his
native state to stay with me for a few weeks. I originally said "Sure!"
but after some further thought I messaged him on FB messenger
and gave him the advice he already got from friends, some mutual
and some not, that he should instead go to a hospital near his home
and seek treatment there. Oh, and the police were after him (he didn't
tell me that bit, I was informed by one of our friends about that).
And he 's got Stage 4 cancer.
Apparently he did just that, at least that's what I hope and pray he did.
I have recently tried to reach him by phone, messenger, and texting
but received no reply. His and our friends have been keeping a close
watch (at least as much as a distance of several hundred miles will
allow) on him. He has, however, been in touch with his mother and
sister; what they are doing to help him I don't know. I pray that he
is indeed in a hospital getting the care he so desperately needs,
and that we all will hear from him in due course. A dear friend, a
fan and avid reader of the Peasant, a fellow Irish-American and
fellow conservative, a fine musician and singer, as well as a
rollicking good pal, I am keeping him in my prayers and have told
him on messenger that when he's all better and has put his troubles
with the law behind him that he then will be welcome to come visit
me and we'll hang out, go to old haunts, I'll make some home-cooked
meals for him, and we'll just shoot the breeze. I just wish I was able to
do more for my chum at this critical time.
I have since found contact information for a suicide prevention hotline.
Suicide Prevention Services of America can help you or a relative
or a friend in a similar situation as my friend. Call or text 988 to talk to
someone who can help; it's free, it's confidential and available 24/7.
Every life matters, every story matters, and reaching out for help is not
a sign of weakness but a sign of strength.
MEM